Thursday, January 22, 2009
It shocked me when rx is on my side to rebute tommy. I believe each and everyone of us is born with certain responsibility that varifies in range.
Tommy has exactly the same mentality as my panda brother who refuses to care abt his siblings. Not saying reluctant to teach ur brother(of a lower intelligence) is an act of irresponsibility but if he gets into trouble, at least talk to him or give him some encouragement instead of quarreling whenever their eyes meet.
I'll soon die of heart attack if mum dun return by today. He is getting out of hand. My sis once said he is exactly a replica of my elder bro but i think he is worse than that. Guess what his tutor said ytd. She was sighing," Lijing, how can you not care abt ur bro? He has been absent for 2 lessons!"
If my mum were to say those words to me, trust that i'll throw all his belongings out of the house.
Tommy's comment intrigued me. I wonder how he has been living without any younger siblings. He must be a blessed child then.
Look, my family consists of people with wide ranges of characters and (bad)habits. And i have five siblings who dun live together since young. Luckily or unluckily, I'm stuck in the middle who bears hopefully not the most troubles. How should I explain? Before things got smoother, my elder bro didn't talk to my younger brothers coz they didn't live together b4. My panda brother didn't play with my younger sis (not even for now)coz she is too irritating in his eyes. The other played too much with her until he wants to be treated like a 4 yr old kid when he is alr 10. Then the eldest sis gave them overwhelming love until they shield from her now.
If i were to mention 1 thing to show our similarity, that is stubborness. We all process it. That's explains why we should stay together for long since no one gives in during a fighter.
Tommy was saying leave them undone for several days and maybe things may get better. Impossible, and ridiculous if I do.
Why I described his friends as '猪朋狗友' coz they bring out the worst of my bro. I know he wasn't perfect in the first place but at least he didn't run away from tuition or even turn my words to deaf ears. To be honest, I hate to act like a mum. Other sis dun act like that. Just look at Jiayi or Vns, they dun have the problems I face all the while. Or if their mum were my mum then i wouldn't have to be bothered by these.
One skill I failed to impose on my brothers-to cook on the stove. Only last year then the panda learnt to fry an egg and sausage and nothing alse. When he was 12, I left him a pot of unboiled water(on the stove), a packet of instant noodle and 4instructions-when water boils, open the lid, put in the noodles, close the lid, call me after u're done.
Guess how many steps he accomplished. Ans: 1. I dun lie. He opened to lid, stared at boiling water and called for help. Since that day I taught him how to cook instant noodles with microwave.
If I can spendmonths teaching him how to shower, years reminding him to turn off lights after shower then I'll definitely able to make him iron his own shirt one day. Hopefully the day doesn't come after my death.
In an hours time, the 3 plump and fair ladies will come to my rescue. Then I'll wash my hands off the defiant kid. Heng! Dun boys develop later? How can he be so rebellious at the age of 10? Wonder whose genes did he inherit...
I think I may have problem staying with the 3 females. Their appearance always make me look like a neighbour's child(that's why it takes a thousand tons of courage for me to shop with them). If one observe cautiously, I resembles my mum too!
Gonna lay out the bed sheet now(in case someone claims I dun welcome her then she may 没收 my new year gift but I doubt if there is any).
Jing
